The importance of feeling understood in marital conversations about end-of-life health care1

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 28, Issue 1, 2011, Pages 100-116

  Moorman, Sara M ^a  

^a BOSTON COLLEGE   (United States)

Author keywords

Advance care planning; Aging; Death and dying; Marital communication; Marital quality; Medical decision making

Indexed keywords

EID: 79952253866     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407510386137     Document Type: Article

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