Accuracy and bias in perceptions of emotionally supportive communication in marriage

Personal Relationships

Volumn 16, Issue 4, 2009, Pages 531-552

  Priem, Jennifer S ^a   Solomon, Denise Haunani ^b   Steuber, Keli Ryan ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

^b PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF IOWA   (United States)

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EID: 71949113155     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: 14756811     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1475-6811.2009.01238.x     Document Type: Article

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