Mothers' Differentiation and depressive symptoms among adult children

Journal of Marriage and Family

Volumn 72, Issue 2, 2010, Pages 333-345

  Pillemer, Karl ^a   Suitor, J Jill ^b   Pardo, Seth ^a   Henderson, Charles ^a  

^a Department of Obstetrics Gynecology   (United States)

^b PURDUE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Adult siblings; Families in middle and later life; Intergenerational relations; Parent child relations

Indexed keywords

EID: 77952821680     PISSN: 00222445     EISSN: 17413737     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1741-3737.2010.00703.x     Document Type: Article

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