Mothers' favoritism in later life: The role of children's birth order

Research on Aging

Volumn 29, Issue 1, 2007, Pages 32-55

  Suitor, J Jill ^a   Pillemer, Karl ^b  

^a PURDUE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b Department of Obstetrics Gynecology   (United States)

Author keywords

Birth order; Parent adult child relations; Parental favoritism

Indexed keywords

ADULT; AGED; ARTICLE; BIRTH ORDER; CONTROLLED STUDY; FAMILY RELATION; FAMILY SIZE; FAVORITISM; FEMALE; HUMAN; MALE; MOTHER CHILD RELATION; NORMAL HUMAN; PARENTAL ATTITUDE; SOCIAL PROBLEM;

EID: 33751395486     PISSN: 01640275     EISSN: 15527573     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0164027506291750     Document Type: Article

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