The Revelation Risk Model (RRM): Factors that predict the revelation of secrets and the strategies used to reveal them

Communication Monographs

Volumn 76, Issue 2, 2009, Pages 144-176

  Afifi, Tamara ^a   Steuber, Keli ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

^b PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Family relationships; Revealment; Secrets; Strategies for revelation

Indexed keywords

EID: 70449567361     PISSN: 03637751     EISSN: 14795787     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/03637750902828412     Document Type: Article

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