A close look at revealing secrets and some consequences that follow

Communication Research

Volumn 33, Issue 6, 2006, Pages 467-488

  Afifi, Walid A ^a   Caughlin, John P ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

Author keywords

Disclosure; Identity; Rumination; Secrets; Self esteem

Indexed keywords

EID: 33750447323     PISSN: 00936502     EISSN: 15523810     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0093650206293250     Document Type: Review

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