Two sides to self-protection: Self-improvement strivings and feedback from close relationships eliminate mnemic neglect

Self and Identity

Volumn 8, Issue 2-3, 2009, Pages 233-250

  Green, Jeffrey D ^a   Sedikides, Constantine ^b   Pinter, Brad ^c   Van Tongeren, Daryl ^a  

^a VIRGINIA COMMONWEALTH UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF SOUTHAMPTON   (United Kingdom)

^c PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Close relationship; Mnemic; Self enhancement; Self improvement; Self protection

Indexed keywords

EID: 68249141553     PISSN: 15298868     EISSN: 15298876     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/15298860802505145     Document Type: Article

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