Fit to Forgive: Exploring the Interaction Between Regulatory Focus, Repentance, and Forgiveness

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 96, Issue 2, 2009, Pages 381-394

  Santelli, Alexander G ^a   Struthers, C Ward ^a   Eaton, Judy ^b  

^a YORK UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

^b WILFRID LAURIER UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

Author keywords

apology; forgiveness; regulatory fit; regulatory focus; transgression

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ARTICLE; ATTITUDE; FEMALE; GUILT; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; QUESTIONNAIRE;

ATTITUDE; FEMALE; GUILT; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; QUESTIONNAIRES; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 60749137447     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0012882     Document Type: Article

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