Open communication and partner support in intercultural and interfaith romantic relationships: A relational maintenance approach

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 25, Issue 4, 2008, Pages 539-559

  Reiter, Michael J ^a   Gee, Christina B ^a  

^a GEORGE WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Communication; Intercultural; Interethnic; Interfaith; Interracial; Relational maintenance; Relationship satisfaction; Support

Indexed keywords

EID: 49749128436     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407508090872     Document Type: Article

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