Topic Avoidance in Developing Romantic Relationships: Associations With Intimacy and Relational Uncertainty

Communication Research

Volumn 31, Issue 2, 2004, Pages 173-205

  Knobloch, Leanne K ^a   Carpenter Theune, Katy E ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

Author keywords

Courtship; Intimacy; Relational uncertainty; Relationship development; Topic avoidance

Indexed keywords

EID: 1642283310     PISSN: 00936502     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0093650203261516     Document Type: Review

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