Motives to remain platonic, equity, and the use of maintenance strategies in opposite-sex friendships

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 17, Issue 1, 2000, Pages 67-94

  Messman, Susan J ^a   Canary, Daniel J ^b   Hause, Kimberley S ^c  

^a PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b ARIZONA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c NONE

Author keywords

Equity; Maintenance; Opposite sex friendship

Indexed keywords

EID: 0034407315     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407500171004     Document Type: Article

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