Automatic inattention to attractive alternatives: the evolved psychology of relationship maintenance

Evolution and Human Behavior

Volumn 29, Issue 5, 2008, Pages 343-349

  Maner, Jon K ^a   Rouby, David Aaron ^a   Gonzaga, Gian C ^b,c  

^a FLORIDA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b eHarmony   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Attention; Cognitive bias; Emotion; Mating; Social cognition

Indexed keywords

EID: 48449105277     PISSN: 10905138     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2008.04.003     Document Type: Article

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