Self-esteem moderates preferences for accepting versus rejecting interaction partners

European Journal of Social Psychology

Volumn 37, Issue 5, 2007, Pages 955-967

  Rudich, Eric A ^a   Sedikides, Constantine ^b   Gregg, Aiden P ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF NORTH CAROLINA   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF SOUTHAMPTON   (United Kingdom)

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EID: 34748849278     PISSN: 00462772     EISSN: 10990992     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1002/ejsp.408     Document Type: Article

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