Seeing I to I: A pathway to interpersonal connectedness

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 90, Issue 2, 2006, Pages 243-257

  Pinel, Elizabeth C ^a   Long, Anson E ^a   Landau, Mark J ^b,e   Alexander, Kira ^c,f   Pyszczynski, Tom ^d  

^a PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF ARIZONA   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF PITTSBURGH   (United States)

^d UNIVERSITY OF COLORADO   (United States)

^e University of Arizona   (United States)

^f UNIVERSITY OF PITTSBURGH SCHOOL OF MEDICINE   (United States)

Author keywords

Attraction and liking; Interpersonal relationships; Self as subject

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ARTICLE; CULTURAL ANTHROPOLOGY; DECISION MAKING; EMOTION; EXISTENTIALISM; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; OBJECT RELATION; PERCEPTION; PERSONAL CONSTRUCT THEORY; SELF CONCEPT; SELF DISCLOSURE; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL ISOLATION; SOCIAL SUPPORT;

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; CHOICE BEHAVIOR; CULTURE; EMOTIONS; EXISTENTIALISM; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; OBJECT ATTACHMENT; PERSONAL CONSTRUCT THEORY; SELF CONCEPT; SELF DISCLOSURE; SOCIAL IDENTIFICATION; SOCIAL ISOLATION; SOCIAL PERCEPTION; SOCIAL SUPPORT;

EID: 33644895411     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.90.2.243     Document Type: Article

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