Feeling better about doing worse: Social comparisons within romantic relationships

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 87, Issue 1, 2004, Pages 80-95

  Lockwood, Penelope ^a   Dolderman, Dan ^a   Sadler, Pamela ^b   Gerchak, Elinora ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TORONTO   (Canada)

^b WILFRID LAURIER UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ADULT; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; LOVE; MALE; PERCEPTION; QUESTIONNAIRE; REVIEW; SELF CONCEPT; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR;

ADULT; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; LOVE; MALE; QUESTIONNAIRES; SELF CONCEPT; SOCIAL IDENTIFICATION; SOCIAL PERCEPTION;

EID: 3042777523     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.87.1.80     Document Type: Review

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