Social relationships: The nature and function of relational schemas

European Journal of Social Psychology

Volumn 30, Issue 4, 2000, Pages 447-495

  Holmes, John G ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WATERLOO   (Canada)

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EID: 0034214648     PISSN: 00462772     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1002/1099-0992(200007/08)30:4<447::AID-EJSP10>3.0.CO;2-Q     Document Type: Review

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