Resolving the paradox of shame: Differentiating among specific appraisal-feeling combinations explains pro-social and self-defensive motivation

Motivation and Emotion

Volumn 40, Issue 1, 2016, Pages 118-139

  Gausel, Nicolay ^a   Vignoles, Vivian L ^b   Leach, Colin Wayne ^c  

^a ØSTFOLD UNIVERSITY COLLEGE   (Norway)

^b UNIVERSITY OF SUSSEX   (United Kingdom)

^c UNIVERSITY OF CONNECTICUT   (United States)

Author keywords

Defensive; Inferiority; Moral; Pro social; Rejection; Shame

Indexed keywords

EID: 84957851472     PISSN: 01467239     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s11031-015-9513-y     Document Type: Article

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