The Price Mothers Pay, Even When They Are Not Buying It: Mental Health Consequences of Idealized Motherhood

Sex Roles

Volumn 74, Issue 11-12, 2016, Pages 512-526

  Henderson, Angie ^a   Harmon, Sandra ^a   Newman, Harmony ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF NORTHERN COLORADO   (United States)

Author keywords

Feminist sociology; Gender; Intensive mothering; Mental health; Motherhood

Indexed keywords

EID: 84940532535     PISSN: 03600025     EISSN: 15732762     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s11199-015-0534-5     Document Type: Article

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