Costs and rewards of children: The effects of becoming a parent on adults' lives

Journal of Marriage and Family

Volumn 65, Issue 2, 2003, Pages 356-374

  Nomaguchi, Kei M ^a   Milkie, Melissa A ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MARYLAND   (United States)

Author keywords

Depression; Gender; Marital status; Self concept; Social integration; Transition to parenthood

Indexed keywords

EID: 0038011902     PISSN: 00222445     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00356.x     Document Type: Article

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