Self-Compassion and Well-Being in Parents of Children with Autism

Mindfulness

Volumn 6, Issue 4, 2015, Pages 938-947

  Neff, Kristin D ^a   Faso, Daniel J ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT DALLAS   (United States)

Author keywords

Autism; Depression; Life satisfaction; Parental stress; Self compassion

Indexed keywords

EID: 84937438927     PISSN: 18688527     EISSN: 18688535     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s12671-014-0359-2     Document Type: Article

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