Self-esteem: Its relational contingencies and consequences

Self-Esteem Issues and Answers: A Sourcebook of Current Perspectives

Volumn , Issue , 2013, Pages 349-358

  Murray, Sandra L ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY AT BUFFALO   (United States)

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EID: 84920486961     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.4324/9780203759745     Document Type: Chapter

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