Different partners, different selves: Strategic verification of circumscribed identities

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 28, Issue 9, 2002, Pages 1215-1228

  Swann Jr , William B ^a   Bosson, Jennifer K ^b   Pelham, Brett W ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF OKLAHOMA   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY AT BUFFALO   (United States)

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EID: 23044532714     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/01461672022812007     Document Type: Article

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