With partners like you, who needs strangers? Ostracism involving a romantic partner

Personal Relationships

Volumn 21, Issue 4, 2014, Pages 557-569

  Arriaga, Ximena B ^a   Capezza, Nicole M ^b   Reed, Jason T ^c   Wesselmann, Eric D ^d   Williams, Kipling D ^a  

^a PURDUE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b STONEHILL COLLEGE   (United States)

^c ADLER PLANETARIUM   (United States)

^d ILLINOIS STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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EID: 84916880023     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: 14756811     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/pere.12048     Document Type: Article

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