Individual differences versus social structural approaches to explaining demand-withdraw and social influence behaviors

Sex Differences and Similarities in Communication: Second Edition

Volumn , Issue , 2006, Pages 362-376

  Sagrestano, Lynda M ^a   Heavey, Christopher L ^b   Christensen, Andrew ^c  

^a SOUTHERN ILLINOIS UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF NEVADA   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9780203873380     Document Type: Chapter

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