An individual difference explanation of why married couples engage in the demand/withdraw pattern of conflict

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 17, Issue 4-5, 2000, Pages 523-551

  Caughlin, John P ^a   Vangelisti, Anita L ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

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EID: 0034390878     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407500174004     Document Type: Article

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