In Search of Looks, Status, or Something Else? Partner Preferences Among Butch and Femme Lesbians and Heterosexual Men and Women

Sex Roles

Volumn 64, Issue 9, 2011, Pages 658-668

  Smith, Christine A ^a   Konik, Julie A ^b   Tuve, Melanie V ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN GREEN BAY   (United States)

^b LAWRENCE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c Spring Lake School District   (United States)

Author keywords

Evolutionary psychology; Interpersonal relationships; Lesbians; Partner preferences; Personal ads

Indexed keywords

EID: 79956313957     PISSN: 03600025     EISSN: 15732762     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s11199-010-9861-8     Document Type: Article

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