Human motives, happiness, and the puzzle of parenthood: Commentary on Kenrick et al. (2010)

Perspectives on Psychological Science

Volumn 5, Issue 3, 2010, Pages 327-334

  Lyubomirsky, Sonja ^a   Boehm, Julia K ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Evolutionary psychology; Happiness; Hierarchy of needs; Motives; Parenting paradox; Positive emotions

Indexed keywords

EID: 79955393861     PISSN: 17456916     EISSN: 17456924     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/1745691610369473     Document Type: Article

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