Long-Term Influences of Intergenerational Ambivalence on Midlife Parents' Psychological Well-being

Journal of Marriage and Family

Volumn 73, Issue 2, 2011, Pages 369-382

  Kiecolt, K Jill ^a   Blieszner, Rosemary ^a   Savla, Jyoti ^a  

^a VIRGINIA POLYTECHNIC INSTITUTE AND STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Ambivalence; Growth curve analysis; Intergenerational relations; Midlife; Well being; Youth emergent adulthood

Indexed keywords

EID: 79952513226     PISSN: 00222445     EISSN: 17413737     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1741-3737.2010.00812.x     Document Type: Article

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