Life and death of a child with Down syndrome and a congenital heart condition: Experiences of six couples

Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities

Volumn 48, Issue 6, 2010, Pages 403-416

  Reilly, Deirdre ^a   Huws, Jaci ^b   Hastings, Richard ^b   Vaughan, Frances ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF EAST LONDON   (United Kingdom)

^b BANGOR UNIVERSITY   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ADOLESCENT; ADULT; AGED; ARTICLE; ATTITUDE TO DEATH; BEREAVEMENT; CHILD; CONGENITAL HEART MALFORMATION; DECISION MAKING; DOWN SYNDROME; FEMALE; GRIEF; HUMAN; INDIVIDUALITY; MALE; MARRIAGE; MIDDLE AGED; MORTALITY; PARENT; PRESCHOOL CHILD; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; SOCIAL SUPPORT;

ADAPTATION, PSYCHOLOGICAL; ADOLESCENT; ADULT; AGED; ATTITUDE TO DEATH; BEREAVEMENT; CHILD; CHILD, PRESCHOOL; DECISION MAKING; DOWN SYNDROME; FEMALE; GRIEF; HEART DEFECTS, CONGENITAL; HUMANS; INDIVIDUALITY; MALE; MARRIAGE; MIDDLE AGED; PARENTS; SOCIAL SUPPORT;

EID: 78650496933     PISSN: 19349556     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1352/1934-9556-48.6.403     Document Type: Article

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