Helping each other grow: Romantic partner support, self-improvement, and relationship quality

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 36, Issue 11, 2010, Pages 1496-1513

  Overall, Nickola C ^a   Fletcher, Garth J O ^b   Simpson, Jeffry A ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF AUCKLAND   (New Zealand)

^b UNIVERSITY OF CANTERBURY   (New Zealand)

^c UNIVERSITY OF MINNESOTA   (United States)

Author keywords

instrumentality; partner support; personal goals; personal growth; self improvement

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ARTICLE; COOPERATION; FAMILY SIZE; FEMALE; FOLLOW UP; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION; LOVE; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; SATISFACTION; SELF CONCEPT; SELF REPORT; SEXUALITY; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR;

ADULT; COMMUNICATION; FAMILY CHARACTERISTICS; FEMALE; FOLLOW-UP STUDIES; HELPING BEHAVIOR; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; LOVE; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; SELF CONCEPT; SELF REPORT; SEXUAL PARTNERS; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 78649829916     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: 15527433     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0146167210383045     Document Type: Article

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