Personal Relationships and Communication Messages at the End of Life

Nursing Clinics of North America

Volumn 45, Issue 3, 2010, Pages 449-463

  Prince Paul, Maryjo ^a,b   Exline, Julie J ^a  

^a CASE WESTERN RESERVE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b Hospice of the Western Reserve   (United States)

Author keywords

Communication; End of life; Forgiveness; Personal relationships; Spirituality

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ADULT; AGED; BEREAVEMENT; FAMILY RELATION; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION; MIDDLE AGED; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; RELIGION; REVIEW; TERMINALLY ILL PATIENT; UNITED STATES; PSYCHOLOGY; VERY ELDERLY;

ADAPTATION, PSYCHOLOGICAL; ADULT; AGED; AGED, 80 AND OVER; BEREAVEMENT; COMMUNICATION; FAMILY RELATIONS; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MIDDLE AGED; SPIRITUALITY; TERMINALLY ILL; UNITED STATES;

EID: 77956151387     PISSN: 00296465     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1016/j.cnur.2010.03.008     Document Type: Review

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