Being grateful is beyond good manners: Gratitude and motivation to contribute to society among early adolescents

Motivation and Emotion

Volumn 34, Issue 2, 2010, Pages 144-157

  Froh, Jeffrey J ^a   Bono, Giacomo ^b   Emmons, Robert ^c  

^a HOFSTRA UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b WHITTIER COLLEGE   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Adolescents; Gratitude; Life satisfaction; Prosocial behavior; Social integration

Indexed keywords

EID: 77954029462     PISSN: 01467239     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s11031-010-9163-z     Document Type: Article

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