What It Takes to Forgive: When and Why Executive Functioning Facilitates Forgiveness

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 98, Issue 1, 2010, Pages 119-131

  Pronk, Tila M ^a   Karremans, Johan C ^a   Overbeek, Geertjan ^b   Vermulst, Ad A ^a   Wigboldus, Daniël H J ^a  

^a RADBOUD UNIVERSITY NIJMEGEN   (Netherlands)

^b UTRECHT UNIVERSITY   (Netherlands)

Author keywords

cognitive control; executive functioning; forgiveness; rumination; self regulation

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ARTICLE; CONFLICT; EXECUTIVE FUNCTION; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; REGRESSION ANALYSIS; SOCIAL CONTROL; THINKING; TIME;

CONFLICT (PSYCHOLOGY); EXECUTIVE FUNCTION; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; REGRESSION ANALYSIS; SOCIAL CONTROL, INFORMAL; THINKING; TIME FACTORS; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 76449110664     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0017875     Document Type: Article

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