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Volumn 23, Issue 6, 2009, Pages 769-778

"If You Can't Say Something Nice, Don't Say Anything at All": Coping with Interpersonal Tensions in the Parent-Child Relationship During Adulthood

Author keywords

ambivalence; conflict strategies; parent child; relationship quality

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ADULT; ARTICLE; CHILD; CHILD PARENT RELATION; CONFLICT; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION; MIDDLE AGED;

EID: 72449188716     PISSN: 08933200     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0016486     Document Type: Article
Times cited : (40)

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