Tensions in the Parent and Adult Child Relationship: Links to Solidarity and Ambivalence

Psychology and Aging

Volumn 24, Issue 2, 2009, Pages 287-295

  Birditt, Kira S ^a   Miller, Laura M ^b   Fingerman, Karen L ^b   Lefkowitz, Eva S ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN   (United States)

^b PURDUE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

ambivalence; parent child; solidarity; tensions

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ADULT CHILD; ADULTHOOD; AMBIVALENCE; ARTICLE; CHILD PARENT RELATION; CONTROLLED STUDY; FAMILY CONFLICT; FEMALE; HUMAN; INTERPERSONAL STRESS; MALE; PARENTAL ATTITUDE;

ADAPTATION, PSYCHOLOGICAL; ADULT; ADULT CHILDREN; CONFLICT (PSYCHOLOGY); EMOTIONS; FATHER-CHILD RELATIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERGENERATIONAL RELATIONS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTHER-CHILD RELATIONS; MOTHERS; PARENT-CHILD RELATIONS; PARENTS; SEX FACTORS; SOCIAL PERCEPTION; STRESS, PSYCHOLOGICAL;

EID: 66549087113     PISSN: 08827974     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0015196     Document Type: Article

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