Striving to Be Known by Significant Others: Automatic Activation of Self-Verification Goals in Relationship Contexts

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 97, Issue 1, 2009, Pages 58-73

  Kraus, Michael W ^a   Chen, Serena ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

automatic goal activation; relational self; self evaluative motives; self verification; transference

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ARTICLE; CULTURAL ANTHROPOLOGY; DEFENSE MECHANISM; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MOTIVATION; PSYCHOTHERAPY; SELF CONCEPT; SOCIAL SUPPORT;

CULTURE; DEFENSE MECHANISMS; FEEDBACK, PSYCHOLOGICAL; FEMALE; GOALS; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MOTIVATION; PROJECTION; SELF CONCEPT; SOCIAL SUPPORT; TRANSFERENCE (PSYCHOLOGY);

EID: 67650377041     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0014687     Document Type: Article

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