An IF-THEN theory of personality: Significant others and the relational self

Journal of Research in Personality

Volumn 43, Issue 2, 2009, Pages 163-170

  Andersen, Susan M ^a   Thorpe, Jennifer S ^a  

^a NEW YORK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Close relationships; Person by situation interaction; Relational self; Significant others; Transference

Indexed keywords

EID: 64049087179     PISSN: 00926566     EISSN: 10957251     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1016/j.jrp.2008.12.040     Document Type: Article

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