Separating fact from fiction: An examination of deceptive self-presentation in online dating profiles

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 34, Issue 8, 2008, Pages 1023-1036

  Toma, Catalina L ^a   Hancock, Jeffrey T ^a   Ellison, Nicole B ^b  

^a Department of Obstetrics Gynecology   (United States)

^b MICHIGAN STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Computer mediated communication; Deception; Online dating; Romantic relationships; Self presentation

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ARTICLE; BEHAVIOR; BODY HEIGHT; BODY WEIGHT; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; INTERNET; MALE; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; RECUMBENCY; SELF CONCEPT; SEX DIFFERENCE; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL DESIRABILITY;

ADULT; BODY HEIGHT; BODY WEIGHT; DECEPTION; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTENTION; INTERNET; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; SELF CONCEPT; SEX FACTORS; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL DESIRABILITY;

EID: 46249116707     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: 15527433     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0146167208318067     Document Type: Article

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