Deception to get a date

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 24, Issue 11, 1998, Pages 1228-1242

  Rowatt, Wade C ^a   Cunningham, Michael R ^b   Druen, Perri B ^c  

^a BAYLOR UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF LOUISVILLE   (United States)

^c York College   (United States)

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EID: 0032219795     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/01461672982411009     Document Type: Article

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