When finding a mate feels urgent: Why relationship contingency predicts men's and women's body shame

Social Psychology

Volumn 39, Issue 2, 2008, Pages 90-102

  Sanchez, Diana T ^a   Good, Jessica J ^a   Kwang, Tracy ^b   Saltzman, Eric ^a  

^a RUTGERS UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

Author keywords

Body image; Body shame; Close relationships; Contingencies of self worth; Self esteem

Indexed keywords

EID: 45449091741     PISSN: 18649335     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1027/1864-9335.39.2.90     Document Type: Article

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