Is It Abuse, Alienation, and/or Estrangement? A Decision Tree

Journal of Child Custody

Volumn 1, Issue 3, 2004, Pages 65-106

  Olesen, Nancy Williams ^b  

^a ALLIANT INTERNATIONAL UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF NORTH CAROLINA   (United States)

Author keywords

Alienation; Child abuse; Child custody evaluation; Decision tree; Domestic violence; Estrangement; Parental rejection

Indexed keywords

EID: 40349105204     PISSN: 15379418     EISSN: 1537940X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J190v01n03_05     Document Type: Article

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