Scared to death or scared to love? Terror management theory and close relationships seeking

European Journal of Social Psychology

Volumn 36, Issue 2, 2006, Pages 279-296

  Śmieja, Magdalena ^a   Kałaska, Małgorzata ^a   Adamczyk, Magdalena ^a  

^a JAGIELLONIAN UNIVERSITY   (Poland)

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EID: 33645658761     PISSN: 00462772     EISSN: 10990992     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1002/ejsp.301     Document Type: Article

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