Chinese evaluations of emotional support skills, goals, and behaviors an assessment of gender-related similarities and differences

Communication Research

Volumn 33, Issue 1, 2006, Pages 38-63

  Burleson, Brant R ^a   Liu, Meina ^b   Liu, Yan ^c   Mortenson, Steven T ^d  

^a PURDUE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF MARYLAND   (United States)

^c TSINGHUA UNIVERSITY   (China)

^d UNIVERSITY OF DELAWARE   (United States)

Author keywords

Comforting; Communication values; Coping behaviors; Interaction goals; Sex differences

Indexed keywords

EID: 31644444901     PISSN: 00936502     EISSN: 15523810     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0093650205283101     Document Type: Article

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