Keeping secrets from parents: Longitudinal associations of secrecy in adolescence

Journal of Youth and Adolescence

Volumn 34, Issue 2, 2005, Pages 137-148

  Frijns, Tom ^a   Finkenauer, Catrin ^b   Vermulst, Ad A ^b   Engels, Rutger C M E ^b  

^a VU UNIVERSITY AMSTERDAM   (Netherlands)

^b NONE

Author keywords

Adjustment; Psychosocial problems; Secrecy; Well being

Indexed keywords

EID: 17644370403     PISSN: 00472891     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s10964-005-3212-z     Document Type: Article

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