What You Think Is What You Get: Comparative Evaluations of Close Relationships

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 29, Issue 12, 2003, Pages 1560-1569

  Broemer, Philip ^a   Diehl, Michael ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TÜBINGEN   (Germany)

Author keywords

Close relationships; Satisfaction; Self; Social comparison

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ARTICLE; CLINICAL TRIAL; CONTROL; CONTROLLED CLINICAL TRIAL; CONTROLLED STUDY; COURTSHIP; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; LEARNING; MALE; OBJECT RELATION; PERCEPTION; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; QUESTIONNAIRE; RANDOMIZED CONTROLLED TRIAL; SATISFACTION; SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY; STUDENT; THINKING;

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; COURTSHIP; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERNAL-EXTERNAL CONTROL; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; OBJECT ATTACHMENT; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; QUESTIONNAIRES; SET (PSYCHOLOGY); SOCIAL PERCEPTION; STEREOTYPING; STUDENTS; THINKING;

EID: 0242719974     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0146167203256918     Document Type: Article

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