Closeness as including other in the self

Handbook of Closeness and Intimacy

Volumn , Issue , 2004, Pages 27-41

  Aron, Arthur P ^a   Mashek, Debra J ^b   Aron, Elaine N ^a  

^a STONY BROOK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b GEORGE MASON UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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