Perspectives on premarital postdissolution relationships: Account-making of friendships between former romantic partners

Handbook of Divorce and Relationship Dissolution

Volumn , Issue , 2013, Pages 113-132

  Masuda, Masahiro ^a  

^a KOCHI UNIVERSITY   (Japan)

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EID: 85082267190     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.4324/9781315820880-15     Document Type: Chapter

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