Fatal attraction

The Dark Side of Close Relationships

Volumn , Issue , 2013, Pages 3-31

  Felmlee, Diane H ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9781410601117-7     Document Type: Chapter

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