Being accepted for who we are: Evidence that social validation of the intrinsic self reduces general defensiveness

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 80, Issue 1, 2001, Pages 35-52

  Schimel, Jeff ^c   Arndt, Jamie ^a   Pyszczynski, Tom ^b   Greenberg, Jeff ^d  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MISSOURI   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF COLORADO   (United States)

^c University of Arizona   (United States)

^d NONE

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ACHIEVEMENT; ADULT; ANALYSIS OF VARIANCE; ARTICLE; DEFENSE MECHANISM; FEMALE; HUMAN; LEARNING; MALE; SELF CONCEPT; SELF EVALUATION; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL DESIRABILITY; SOCIAL DISTANCE;

ACHIEVEMENT; ADULT; ANALYSIS OF VARIANCE; DEFENSE MECHANISMS; FEMALE; HUMANS; MALE; SELF ASSESSMENT (PSYCHOLOGY); SELF CONCEPT; SET (PSYCHOLOGY); SOCIAL DESIRABILITY; SOCIAL DISTANCE; SOCIAL IDENTIFICATION;

EID: 85047684209     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.80.1.35     Document Type: Article

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