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Volumn 8, Issue 3-4, 2004, Pages 193-238

Lesbian flex-ibility: Friend and/or family connections among lesbian ex-lovers

Author keywords

Boundaries; Ex lover; Family; Former partner; Friendship; Lesbian; Personal relationships; Relationship breakup; Relationship repair

Indexed keywords


EID: 85009561639     PISSN: 10894160     EISSN: 15403548     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J155v08n03_30     Document Type: Article
Times cited : (19)

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